Sleep, baby, sleep!

I've wanted to write an update on Sophie's sleeping for a while but with so much going on, and not really being settled since the move, I thought I would hold off until I knew her sleeping was for real. We just took a trip and I haven't had to re-establish schedules since so I'm pretty confident about her sleeping now! And yes, I am very aware I just cursed myself. Let's all take a moment to knock on wood for me. Thanks.

Is anyone else mega obsessed with taking photos of their sleeping baby? I think half the photos I have of her she's unconscious! But it's so dang cute! She always looks so peaceful. I love her!

So here's how it went down. We tried a thousand different gentle, no cry, attachment-parenting sleep methods and none of them worked. If I was in the room, Sophie wanted to be in my arms. I was exhausted from waking up every 2-3hrs, it was disturbing Steve, and I honestly didn't think it was working for Sophie either. Cosleeping didn't work either because Sophie sleeps like this: 

Which means many nights I ended up at the end of the bed. No fun. Plus, she would wake up to nurse, and I was just over touched by the end of the day. Add in an hour of nursing and rocking trying to get her to sleep, and you can probably get my frustration! So trying cry it out seemed like the only way to go.

And holy crap did it work for us.

Let me add a quick disclaimer - I hated having to do CIO. I hated listening to her cry. It was a last resort for us. I do not recommend this as a first try. But if you are exhausted and have tried many things and none of them are working, maybe it's for you. 

But CIO worked for us. The first night, Sophie cried for 45 soul-crushing minutes. She woke up once in the middle of the night and cried for 15 minutes. She woke up at 6:30 awake and happy. The second night, she cried for 20 minutes, and she didn't wake up in the middle of the night. She woke up at 5:30, nursed, and went back to sleep until 7. The third night, 5 minutes of crying. No midnight wake up, 5:30 to nurse and back to sleep until 7. 

It was GLORIOUS! 

We had a few hiccups as we were still living with my parents, and I was putting her to bed at 7:30, and their hallway is loud. So if she heard someone walking up and down, she would wake up and cry. But for the most part, she started sleeping through the night! Now it takes me 15 minutes instead of 1.5hrs to get her into her crib, Steve and I get to spend more time together, and I even occasionally get to work out in the evening! I have so much time!

She still naps in my bed, but that's for my convenience. First, she naps longer - 3-4 hrs in my bed compared to 1.5hrs in her crib. It also means I have time to clean up her room/put away her laundry, etc. She takes one nap a day and that's really all she needs or wants!

She also comes into bed with us in the morning! She'll wake up between 5:30-6:30 and nurse, then usually falls back to sleep until 7:30-8:30 depending on when she went to bed the night before. This works for me because I loooooove our morning snuggles!

Although depending on when she wakes up and when I went to bed, sometimes she wakes up a bit earlier than I'd like... 

It also makes me much happier during the day. Babies are very demanding on the bodies of their mamas. Between nursing, rocking, snuggling, being carried, etc, I get touched out by the end of the day! Having that night stretch has made SUCH a difference to me! During the day, if she wants to be carried or snuggled or nursed or whatever, it's much more of a joy! It makes me a lot happier to be able to give that physical attention to her when she needs it!

So moral of the story is - do what's best for you. Do what you need to do to make yourself happy. A happy, well-rested mama is a good mama! And a happy, well-rested baby is a good baby!

And let's not forget the dads - they need sleep too! Steve is a lot happier now that he doesn't have to worry about Sophie falling out of bed or crushing her in his sleep!

And one more wake-up photo for good luck - how cute is that face?

Cloth Diapering!

One of the things I knew I would do with my kids is cloth diapering. My parents did it with us and I've always known I've wanted to do it too! There are a few reasons. First, I know I want a lot of kids, and with the amount of diapers filling the landfills already, I knew I didn't want to add to that with all of my children! It would be environmentally irresponsible! Secondly, the cost! We have spent maybe $200 on diapers in Sophie's life, because my parents bought our stash for us, so we only need to buy them on occasion. We did use them for the first two weeks or so of her life, until her belly button healed, and we use them occasionally if I don't wash on time or if we go on trips. But I try to minimize that as much as possible. Third, cloth diaper butts are SO CUTE! They are big and fluffy and adorable, and the covers are so fun too!

Look at that tiny baby and her tiny cloth diapered butt! So cute!

I do want to say though, our circumstances are very lucky that we can do this. I stay at home, so that's easier. I know it's harder for working parents to find a daycare that will do them, and then find time for an extra load of laundry! Also, I have no sense of smell and have a strong stomach when it comes to this kind of stuff. It's not for everyone, and I don't want anyone to think I judge them for not using them! 

Now that I've put that disclaimer out there, back to it! I use the Kanga Care Rumparooz that my friend Camille suggested to me. She is my cloth diapering guru - at my baby shower she walked me through her system and I basically just copied her! They were really great with cute prints and colors, although they have partnered with an anime company so their print diapers aren't as cute in my opinion anymore. They still have some gorgeous solids though!

My set up is pretty simple. Sophie's dresser is also the diaper change station. We used to have a separate thing for it but her room is not huge and we want to conserve space! This works perfectly though!

We have the bottom drawer as her diaper drawer. Two baskets hold the covers and the cloth diapers. It makes it really easy for me, and she hasn't figured out how to open it yet so she doesn't throw them everywhere!

Then on the top we have the changing pad, fasteners, and her cloth wipes. We started using regular wipes but it was such a hassle, and we had to switch brands because her skin is so sensitive, so we just went with good old cloth wipes and a plastic bottle full of water. It works a treat!

One of our biggest tricks is coconut oil! Regular creams clog up the cloth, making them less absorbent, but coconut oil doesn't, so we use tons of it! Keeps her skin smooth and helps ward off infections!

Finally, how we clean them: I put them straight into a bucket of water and borax. This stops them from smelling until I can throw them in the wash! We tend to go about three days in between washing them. They stay under the sink in Sophies bathroom, out of her and Nellie's reach. 

So useful and patriotic!

I don't do a lot of touching poop, most of it goes straight into the toilet. We have also been doing a kind of early toilet training with Sophie - if I can tell she is about to poop/pooping, I just take her to the toilet and sit her on it! So we haven't had too many poops to deal with! And that's that! If you have any questions let me know!

The Terrible Twos... At 14 Months?

Today we went over to see my mum and hang out at the house. Sophie knows who lives there and was so excited to see her Grandma! However, while they were reading together, I decided to join in. I put my head next to Sophie, gave her a kiss, and she pushed me away. Yup. My sweet little girl pushed me away. I was not invited to reading time with grandma. Ouch. Later, we went blueberry picking. Sophie LOVES blueberries! They are her favorite fruit, tied maybe with bananas. She loves them! But after blueberry picking we had a bit of a problem. Girl wouldn't share. I tried to take a blueberry from her bucket and she screamed at me! Full on screamed. My bad. The other morning, as I was making her eggs for breakfast, I gave her a bit of peanut butter on bread to tide her over until it was done. She threw it at me. Last night, I tried to read her Guess How Much I Love You to take a break from The Very Hungry Caterpilar and she smacked me in the face.

This tiny sweet girl has Opinions. With a capital O. And she is not shy about letting me know! Is it possible we have entered the terrible twos 10 months early?! We are already getting tantrums! Full on throw her head, arch her back, scream tantrums! She goes from the sweetest girl to yelling in a moments notice! Then as soon as I give her eggs, or read the right book, she's back to being my sweet angel baby. I even got in trouble for trying to dress her. Apparently, clothes are now optional in the Stapley house!

I guess I shouldn't be surprised. It's not like I'm never stubborn... Or opinionated... I had this coming! And you know what? I love it! I'm proud of my girl for stating her opinion! For letting me know what she wants! She hasn't got the words right now to explain, but she still lets me know what she wants! Sure, it's not fun in the moment to have a piece of peanut buttery bread lobbed at your face, but you know what? I'm glad she's not a doormat. I'm glad she's loud. I'm glad she lets me know. She's gonna be a force to be reckoned with (send prayers!) and I love it!

Near death experience!

Okay that might be a slight exaggeration. I'm getting a bit click-baity with these blog titles. Sorry.

But seriously. Near death experience! Sophie and I were driving to pick Steve up Thursday. I was driving our 4Runner and took a turn slightly too fast. It was a little sharper of a turn than I expected. It was rainy. 

And we hydroplaned. Of course, all of my knowledge and education, and all of the lectures dad gave me went straight out the window. I panicked! I immediately did the two things you're NOT SUPPOSED TO DO. I slammed on my brakes and yanked my wheel. Idiot. We swerved to the right, then swerved to the left and did a 270 turn, ending up in the other lane of traffic, pointing toward the sidewalk. Through miracle of miracles, there was a red light up ahead and zero traffic on the roads, which seriously was amazing since it was 4:30pm in the Highlands! 

I was freaking out like crazy! I drove the rest of the short way at about 5 mph and immediately burst into tears upon seeing Steve. I didn't quite explain what happened through the tears, so he was a little worried about the car. Have you ever had your husband ever so sensitively try and find out if your near accident was the car's fault or because you're a crap driver? Such a sweetheart! It takes quite a lot of skill to ask a slightly hysterical woman questions without accusing her of being a terrible driver! Luckily I was able to calm down and reassure him that all was good on the car. 

But everytime I think about it I am filled with gratitude. If there were cars behind us, we could have been hit. If there were cars driving in the other direction, we would have been hit. That's the scariest for me because they would have hit directly where Sophie's car seat is. Her door would have taken the impact. My heart freezes whenever I think of the what ifs of the situation. I am so grateful that we weren't hit. I'm so grateful that the traffic was stopped at the light. I'm so grateful that Sophie didn't even notice what happened, peacefully asleep in her car seat. I am so grateful. My prayers were extra long that night, pouring out gratitude! For everything that I have - my health, my husband, my beautiful daughter. My amazing parents and in-laws. My incredible family. Supportive friends. A comfortable home and an adorable dog.

As we were driving home, going 60 in the slow lane, and holding hands, I had to giggle a little bit on the missed opportunity. I'm perfectly healthy, perfectly fine, not even a slight bit of whiplash... Which means I have no excuse not to work out this weekend. Blast.

Reading to Sophie

One of my favorite parts of my day is reading to Sophie. She absolutely loves it! We read at least three books before bed, usually five. She loves turning the page, pointing out the stars or the caterpillar or the different animals. She loves lifting the flaps on Spot books and listening to the silly noises! It's such a joy! She curls into me, puts her little arm on mine, and settles in to enjoy whatever it is we read that night. So I thought I would make a list of her favorite books to share with you guys! Honestly this post is definitely for me - I want to remember her favorite things, and these books are definitely some of them! In no particular order, here they are:

1. Where's Spot?

2. Duck and Goose: Goose Needs a Hug

3. The Very Hungry Caterpillar

4. Teddy Bear Picnic

5. Little Blue Truck

6. The More We Get Together

7. Twinkle Twinkle Little Star

8. Goodnight Boston

9. Who Says Quack?

10. The Itsy Bitsy Snowman

The great thing about these books though is that I like reading them! Thus far, we haven't had any differing opinions as to which books are good. She definitely knows which ones she wants to read, and will tell me if I'm reading the wrong one! Once she almost threw herself off the couch because I'd picked up the wrong book and she could see the one she wanted! Silly mummy. I'm hoping this love of reading continues - I can't wait for the day that we read Harry Potter and the Sorcerers Stone together!

I will be honest about one thing though - I haven't read her the book I Love You Forever yet. I'm worried I might cry!

Such exciting news!

Remember when I posted about the apartments I wanted? I'm soooooo excited! Last week we found out we got the apartment we want! We are officially approved and will be moving in on June 6th! I'm SO excited! It's the Issaquah Terrace apartments. They are so beautiful! I can't wait! This is our floor plan:

I am slightly worried about moving out though to be honest. I am really excited to have our own space and get to use all of our stuff again. However, I will definitely miss having mum and dad around to help with Sophie! Sometimes I think she gets sick of me and would rather be with them instead! She loves them so much! It will be an adjustment for sure, but it's only 20 minutes down the road! 

How to clap: a photo guide by Sophie

Step one: make sure your adoring audience is paying attention to you

Step two: raise your hands as far as you can

Step three: put your hands together

Step four: pull them apart

Step five: put them together again

Step six: pull them apart

Step seven: laugh at how awesome you are

Step eight: make sure your adoring audience is still watching

Step nine: smile!

And there you go! Good job! You did it!